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Videz votre tasse<\/em><\/h2>

La sagesse de faire de l'espace<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L'histoire<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un professeur d'universit\u00e9 est venu rendre visite \u00e0 Nan-in, un ma\u00eetre zen japonais.
Curieux et plein de connaissances, le professeur dit qu'il veut en savoir plus sur le zen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nan-in l'accueille et commence \u00e0 servir le th\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il verse le th\u00e9 dans la tasse du professeur.
Il s'est rempli.
Puis il a d\u00e9bord\u00e9.
Et a continu\u00e9 \u00e0 se d\u00e9verser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le professeur regarde le th\u00e9 d\u00e9border, confus et alarm\u00e9.
\"Stop ! dit-il. \"La coupe est pleine ! Il n'y en a plus !\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nan-in a r\u00e9pondu calmement :
\"Exactement. Vous \u00eates comme cette tasse remplie de vos propres opinions et hypoth\u00e8ses.
Comment puis-je vous montrer le zen si vous ne videz pas d'abord votre coupe ?\"<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La le\u00e7on<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On ne peut rien verser de nouveau dans une tasse d\u00e9j\u00e0 pleine.
On ne peut pas enseigner \u00e0 quelqu'un qui pense d\u00e9j\u00e0 savoir.
Vous ne pouvez pas grandir en vous accrochant \u00e0 ce qui ne vous sert plus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Et vous ne pouvez certainement pas gu\u00e9rir si vous vous accrochez encore \u00e0 la douleur comme \u00e0 une r\u00e9compense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vider sa tasse<\/strong> ne signifie pas qu'il faille effacer son pass\u00e9.
Cela signifie que faire de l'espace<\/em>-Pour la v\u00e9rit\u00e9, pour le changement, pour quelque chose de meilleur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cela signifie qu'il faut abandonner l'id\u00e9e que \"je le sais d\u00e9j\u00e0\".
L'abandon du \"je vais bien\".
L\u00e2cher l'orgueil, l'attitude d\u00e9fensive, le besoin d'avoir raison.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dans le r\u00e9tablissement, c'est tout ce qui compte.
Parce que nous n'arrivons pas seulement avec des tasses pleines - nous arrivons avec seaux d\u00e9bordants<\/strong> d'histoires, de traumatismes, de rationalisations et de fausses identit\u00e9s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Et le premier miracle n'est pas d'apprendre quelque chose de nouveau.
C'est \u00eatre pr\u00eat \u00e0 d\u00e9sapprendre.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La traduction au service de la rue<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On ne peut pas remplir un r\u00e9servoir d'essence sale avec du carburant propre.
Il faut d'abord vidanger les d\u00e9chets.
Il en va de m\u00eame pour votre fa\u00e7on de penser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Application de r\u00e9cup\u00e9ration<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \n
  • Si vous \u00eates plein de ressentiment, il n'y a pas de place pour la paix.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Si vous contr\u00f4lez tout, il n'y a pas de place pour la gr\u00e2ce.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Si vous \u00eates plein de honte, il n'y a pas de place pour la valeur.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

    Il faut en verser un peu.<\/strong>
    Ne serait-ce qu'un peu.
    C'est l\u00e0 que la lumi\u00e8re entre en jeu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Pistes de r\u00e9flexion<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    1. De quoi ai-je \u00e9t\u00e9 \"rempli\" ces derniers temps et qui pourrait faire obstacle \u00e0 ma gu\u00e9rison ?<\/strong>
    (Orgueil ? Peur ? Contr\u00f4le ? Energie de je-sais-tout ?)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    2. Qu'est-ce que je suis pr\u00eat \u00e0 \"d\u00e9verser\" aujourd'hui pour faire de la place \u00e0 la croissance ?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    3. Y a-t-il d\u00e9j\u00e0 eu un moment o\u00f9 j'ai abandonn\u00e9 une id\u00e9e ou une croyance et o\u00f9 quelque chose de mieux est arriv\u00e9 ? Qu'est-ce qui a chang\u00e9 ?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    4. Que ressentirait-on si l'on abordait la journ\u00e9e d'aujourd'hui avec une coupe vide - ouverte, curieuse, susceptible d'\u00eatre enseign\u00e9e ?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Outil de pratique : La m\u00e9ditation de la coupe vide (2 minutes)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \n
    1. S'asseoir avec une tasse \u00e0 la main<\/strong> (tout type).<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    2. Fermez les yeux. Respirez profond\u00e9ment.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n
    3. Imaginez tout ce que vous avez transport\u00e9 - stress, opinions, craintes - et tout ce que vous avez fait.dans cette tasse.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n
    4. Faire basculer doucement le gobelet.<\/strong>
      Imaginez que vous vous d\u00e9barrassiez de tout ce qui ne vous sert plus.
      Laissez tomber.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      Inspirez :<\/strong> Je lib\u00e8re ce qui ne sert plus.<\/em>
      Expirez :<\/strong> Je fais de la place pour ce qui est vrai.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

      <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Rappel de cl\u00f4ture<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Vous n'avez pas besoin d'\u00eatre fix\u00e9.
      Vous n'avez pas besoin de tout savoir.
      Il suffit d'\u00eatre volontaire<\/em> pour faire de la place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Une tasse vide ne signifie pas que vous \u00eates bris\u00e9.
      Cela signifie que vous \u00eates pr\u00eat.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

      <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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