Voici un discours que je tiens souvent aux jeunes p\u00e8res autour de la table avec leurs jeunes filles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Les filles peuvent effrayer les jeunes p\u00e8res. Voici ce que vous allez faire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si votre fille est petite, elle ne se souviendra jamais des promesses que vous n'avez pas encore tenues, des pi\u00e8ces de th\u00e9\u00e2tre que vous n'avez pas encore manqu\u00e9es. Vous prenez un nouveau d\u00e9part.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nos enfants font comme s'ils ne nous entendaient pas, mais ils nous entendent. Et lorsque nos filles deviendront des adolescentes et des jeunes ados, elles repousseront les limites. C'est ce qu'elles sont cens\u00e9es faire. Mais lorsque nous faisons respecter ces limites avec amour, compassion et attention, elles se sentent en s\u00e9curit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Voici l'essentiel : plus que d'\u00e9couter, ils regardent. Les petits yeux sont riv\u00e9s sur nous en permanence, observant la fa\u00e7on dont nous g\u00e9rons le stress, les d\u00e9saccords et les joies. Nous donnons l'exemple, que nous le voulions ou non.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si nous pouvons donner l'exemple de ce que sont le caract\u00e8re, l'int\u00e9grit\u00e9, l'honneur, le courage, la loyaut\u00e9 et le pardon, alors qui pensez-vous que nos filles rechercheront dans un partenaire de vie ? Elles rechercheront ce qu'elles ont vu pendant vingt-cinq ans ou plus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C'est ce que nous devons faire pour nos filles.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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